At a sitdown function, the position of honor is always to the right of the host. If you are hosting an event, advises meetpete.org guest blogger Pamela Eyring, President of the Protocol School of Washington, place the top VIP directly to your right. When hosting a meal at a restaurant, either pre-pay a pre-set meal in advance…or see the Maitre d’ afterward in private. Never allow a check to be presented at the table.